10 June, 2025

Guide for parties in the Evatt List

The Evatt List is a specialist list developed by the Courts where a highly qualified team of Senior Judicial Registrars, Judicial Registrars, Court Child Experts and court staff, in consultation with Judges, are allocated to manage eligible cases that are considered to be high risk, through more intensive case management and resources.

Family law: Drug and alcohol support

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There are a range of drug and alcohol support services that can assist you at this difficult time. This page provides contact details of national support services, including counselling and outreach organisations.

Crisis support

Lifeline

13 11 14

Beyond Blue

1300 224 636 or Online chat

Alcohol Drug Information Service

1800 250 015

Alcoholics Anonymous

1300 222 222

Family Drug Support Australia

1300 368 186

Kids Help Line

1800 551 800

Counselling service and outreach organisations

National Alcohol and Other Drug Hotline

1800 250 015

Alcohol and drug counselling online

Drug and Alcohol Services Australia

Lives Lived Well

1300 727 957

Mental health support services

Separation, divorce and coming to court can be a highly stressful time and it affects people in different ways. Stress, anxiety, depression and other forms of mental illness are common.

This page details a list of national organisations and other resources that may provide support.

Crisis support

Lifeline 
13 11 14

Beyond Blue 
1300 224 636 or Online chat

Suicide Call Back Service 
1300 659 467

Kids Help Line 
1800 551 800

Resources

Australian Child and Adolescent Trauma, Loss and Grief Network 
A network linking people across Australia concerned with the trauma, loss and grief experiences of children and adolescents.

Beyond Blue (the national depression initiative)
Provides national leadership to increase community awareness, prevention and early intervention of depression and related illnesses.

Black Dog Institute 
A not-for-profit, educational, research, clinical and community-oriented facility offering specialist expertise in depression and bipolar disorder.

Children of Parents with a Mental Illness 
Promotes better mental health outcomes for children whose parents have a mental illness.

Clinical Research Unit for Anxiety and Depression
Information and research on anxiety and depression for consumers and doctors.

Headspace (National Youth Mental Health Foundation)
Provides health advice, support and information to young Australians aged 12–25.

Head to Health 
National digital mental health online portal.

healthdirect 
A national, government-owned, not-for-profit organisation who supports Australians in managing their own health and wellbeing through a range of online health services.

Kids Help Line 
Provides a free 24 hour national telephone and online counselling service for young people aged between 5 and 25 in Australia.

Lifeline Australia 
The peak body for Lifeline Centres which provide telephone counselling, and information, referral and associated services in local areas.

Mental Health in Multicultural Australia
Provides a national focus on mental health and suicide prevention amongst Australians from culturally and linguistically diverse backgrounds.

MindSpot clinic 
A national clinic that provides free online and telephone assessment and treatment for Australian adults with stress, worry, anxiety, low mood or depression.

National Mental Health Consumer and Carer Forum 
The national voice for consumers and carers participating in the development of mental health policy and sector development in Australia.

ReachOut.com 
A youth mental health service providing practical tools, forums and information in a safe and anonymous online environment.

SANE forums 
Provides peer support for people living with a mental illness or related mental health issues, and for family, friends and other carers.

Separate smarter: Overview

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Separation is the ending of an intimate partner relationship, including the end of a marriage or de facto relationship. It is often a difficult time; it can be stressful, and you may feel unsure about what to do next.

If you have separated recently, you and your former partner will need to make some immediate decisions about practical issues concerning your children and/or your assets like property and debts. Some of the things you might need to consider are:

  • where your children live and who will take care of them
  • how you and your former partner will support yourselves and your children
  • what, how and when you will tell the children, other family members and friends
  • who will pay outstanding bills or debts
  • who will stay in the house
  • how will the rent or mortgage be paid
  • what will happen to any joint bank, building society or credit union accounts, and
  • what will happen to the house, car, furniture and other property.

You may not be able to agree on all these things at the time of separation, but if it is safe to do so, it can greatly help you and your family if you try to reach a temporary agreement.

You can contact the Family Relationship Advice Line, a Family Relationship Centre, or other community-based services for help to reach an agreement.

Family Relationship Advice Line

1800 050 321

www.familyrelationships.gov.au

You can separate smarter

Where it is safe to do so, you can take ownership of your dispute. Whether you agree, partially agree or don't agree at all. You can mediate at any stage, as many times as you need. It is time we started thinking differently about family law disputes.

Most people don't need to come to court to make arrangements for their children or dividing property and finances after separation.

While you do need to apply to the Court for a Divorce order (to end your marriage), there is no need for parenting and/or financial arrangements to be decided by a court - unless it is not safe to make your own agreement, or after making a genuine attempt to resolve your dispute, you still cannot agree.

Going to court is expensive, time consuming and stressful, and you may not get the result you want.

When it is safe - there is a better way to separate.

An AUSLAN version of this video is also available.

Getting help to resolve your dispute

Court proceedings should be a last resort. The Court expects people to make genuine attempts to engage in dispute resolution, to avoid the time, cost and stress associated with litigation.

Dispute resolution refers to a range of services designed to help you resolve disputes arising from separation or divorce and improve your relationship with the other party/s. There is an expectation that you will attempt to resolve your dispute by compromise, discussion and dispute resolution, if it is safe to do so. Even if you do start court proceedings, in most cases, you must demonstrate that you have taken genuine steps to resolve the dispute.

For more information about options and assistance to resolve your dispute, see Get help - Dispute Resolution.

Looking after yourself

Separation is a big change. It can be a difficult time for you, your children, and your former partner. Looking after yourself and recognising when you might need a bit of extra help and support is important. If you are feeling stressed, see the brochure Separation and stress.

For more information about help and support, see Get help – Support services.

Family violence and your safety

The Court places children, litigants and their safety at the heart of the process. For some families, it may be unsafe to resolve their disputes without the help of the Court process and court orders. Remember, there are people who can help you.

If you are experiencing family and domestic violence you can get help and support. See Get help – Family violence or visit the Family Violence Law Help website, which provides information about domestic and family violence and the law in Australia.

Family Violence Law Help

https://familyviolencelaw.gov.au/

If you are in immediate danger call 000

 

Further reading

Pre-Action Procedures: What to do before you file your family law application

Are you thinking about filing a family law application in the Court? This checklist brochure takes you through the steps or ‘pre-action procedures’ you need to complete before you do so. These steps will ask you to try and resolve issues with the other party using Dispute Resolution, if it is safe to do so.